I found from own experiences that certain good choices would bring in a lot many benefits, irrespective of whatever situation/position we are in and thought of sharing it with you all here.
Can we admit our own mistakes? (Yes, thatchoice is with us only!)
Don’t waste time and energy in defending or justifying mistakes. Accept them and focus on damage control.
Do not be harsh on others for their mistakes. Learn from own mistakes as also those of someone else.Learn to take criticism.
Constructive criticism is not a personal affront.It deserves introspection on your part.Objectively view the critical opinion.
#Tip: If there is any truth in it, correct yourself; If not, ignore it.
Can we be happy with whatever we have?
(Yes, that choice also with us only)
The happiest of the people are not the richest;but those who makes the most of everything they have.
Saying no to that which we cannot afford is an old, yet relevant philosophy.
Be happy always with what you have achieved and what you aim to do in the future:Setting stretch goals is good, but setting unrealistic targets isn’t.It corrodes emotional strength and self esteem.
#Tip : Simple things could make us feel better,We tend to forget the small things that could make us really happy.
Can we choose to be more kind and considerate ?
Yes, We can Compliment our colleagues ,friends and others for their achievements and promote team spirit.
If we have the power to make someone feel good, we should make them feel good.
#Tip: Develop an image of a go to person.
Can we choose to help others ?
Yes!…Helping others give that “feel good” warmth, while shifting focus from difficulties you face.
Count your blessings, and return the society back all the good turns it has given you.
#Tip: Most popular people are also those who are also willing to help others unconditionally.
Can we embrace change?(Of course we can, provided we are ready for it mentally!)
Adapt to change, mold attitude and knowledge to be in line with the latest technology, changes in market conditions and rising customer expectations.
Most of the frustrations are self-induced.
#Tip: So life is also all about our resilience to adjust to the adversities.
Can we choose to listen more carefully?
Yes….Communication means talking and listening actively. Understanding other’s views facilitates and improves decision making.A good listener ,is well informed and less likely to make mistakes.
#Tip : “Listening is a very rare skill, and in these noisy times, it is more and more valuable”
Can we genuinely be happy for others ?
(Yes,Always if we want so)
Learn to be happy for others, just as you are for your own self.
Remember all the good things that people have done for you; forget the hurts.
#Tip: “Turn your wounds into wisdom and your stumbling blocks into stepping stones”
Can we choose to take logical decisions?
Yes, We have to be logical!
Never take decisions when angry or upset.Manage the disappointments well and equally important is distancing from negativity.
#Tip: “I knew I matured when I realized every situation doesn’t need a reaction”
Let us make our sincere efforts to make the best possible choices under all kind of situations.
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Published earlier on LinkedIn by me on 26/01/2016, Sharing it for you all again in case if you missed it earlier..Thanks